BISS List 11.20.25 Spotlight on Grateful Waltz (11.26) + The Best of BISS This Week
Happy Women’s Entrepreneurship Day, BISS Listers! 💜
Today, we celebrate the women who build, create, and lift our communities. Women drive most global spending yet earn only a small share of the world’s income, which is why supporting women-led work matters. And in live music, so many of the artists and creators moving the culture forward are women.
And if you are looking to support a woman entrepreneur this season, well, you are reading the work of one right now. I kicked off my end-of-year fundraising campaign for the BISS List this week, and you should have received an email on Tuesday with what we’ve accomplished in 2025, how we made it happen, and how you can partner with us to keep this community strong. If you missed it, now is a great time to take a look and join in. Every bit of support helps keep the music moving.
Last Week in Review:
- Thu 11/13: GLIDE 40th Annual Holiday Jam and Benefit Auction @ The Warfield – A powerful night of inspiration with standout moments from Marvin K. White, Dominique Hammons, Ruby Ibarra, El DeBarge, and an emotional Lizzie Glide Spirit Award for Joan Baez. Here is a photo gallery from Gabriel David Barkin and you can catch my video moments.
- Fri 11/14: Game Night @ Manny’s Cafe – A cozy night of analog fun with live music from Jordan Feinstein and Aaron Kaplan and a full room sing-along during Name That Tune that absolutely lit up the night. I grabbed some fun clips too.
- Sat 11/15: Casey’s 50th Celebration @ Felton – A joyful birthday gathering with great friends, an overnight escape, and a gorgeous soundtrack from Lebo and Reed Mathis with special sit-ins from Josh Gelfand. Take a peek at a few of my videos.
- Mon 11/24: David Byrne @ Bill Graham Civic. If you ask anyone who went to any of these three shows, they will tell you they were amazing! For a bit of taste, check out Gabriel David Barkin’s gorgeous photo gallery from Monday’s show! And tune in next week for my videos from the Tuesday show!
On My Radar: By the time you’re reading this, I’ll have already hit Samantha Fish on Weds, but you’ll have to wait until next week’s BISS List to hear all about it. In the meantime, here are some other shows where you might catch me this week!
- Thu 11/20: LowDown Brass Band @ Black Cat (*WIN* – also for 21st + 22nd!)
- Thu 11/20: The Brian Jonestown Massacre @ The Regency Ballroom
- Fri 11/21: Robert Plant’s Saving Grace @ Fox Oakland – Hoping for a miracle ticket for this legend!
- Fri 11/21: BERTHA: Grateful Drag @ Great American Music Hall – Happy Bday Keith!
- Fri 11/21: The Nth Power @ Boom Boom Room (*WIN*) – Perfect Late Night meet up after all the shows!
- Sat 11/22 & 11/23: Khruangbin @ The Regency Ballroom
And as always, you can choose your own adventure — check out the Best of BISS, Full Calendar, or Win Tickets page for all the options.
Mark Your Calendar:
- 11/26: Grateful Waltz @ Ashkenaz – (*WIN*) – Anna Elva’s Thanksgiving Eve Grateful Waltz is back with another all-star line-up featuring Mark Karan, Matt Hartle, Reed Mathis, Scott Guberman, Danny Eisenberg, Joe Craven, Hattie Craven, Melody Walker, and Jacob Groopman + special guests. More on this in the spotlight below.
- 11/28 – 11/30: The Great Dickens Christmas Fair & Victorian Holiday Party! @ Cow Palace (*WIN* for 28th, 29th, & 30th) – Happening for five weekends, running through Dec 21st
- 11/28: Smoked Out Soul + Sweater Funk @ Ivy Room (*WIN*)
- 11/29: Jackie Greene @ The Fillmore (*WIN*)
Thanks for showing up for the music, for this community, and for women building something meaningful in the world. ♥️
~ Pamela aka Miss BISS
#seeyouattheshows
SPOTLIGHT ON GRATEFUL WALTZ
Anna’s 2nd Annual Grateful Waltz
Nov 26th @ Ashkenaz
For many music lovers, watching Scorsese’s The Last Waltz on Thanksgiving has become a cherished tradition. A yearly return to The Band’s legendary performance, filmed on Thanksgiving Day in San Francisco. Building on that spirit, Anna Elva’s Grateful Waltz is growing into its own Thanksgiving Eve tradition. Anna is a huge fan of The Band, which may not come as a surprise, since her son, Levon, is named after the drummer. It seemed an obvious choice to take two of her favorites (The Band & the Grateful Dead) and combine them into an epic “Grateful Waltz”.
The Last Waltz is special because it features not only the core band, but lots of special guests. In that spirit this event is packed with a lineup that embodies the all-star, guest-filled energy that made The Last Waltz unforgettable. This year includes double keyboards with Scott Guberman and Danny Eisenberg, and three guitarists: Mark Karan, Matt Hartle, plus special guest Reed Mathis. Melody Walker and Jacob Groopman from Bertha (Grateful Drag) are coming all the way in from Nashville, plus the best father-daughter duo in the West, Hattie Craven and Joe Craven.
BISS GALLERY
David Byrne
Step into Monday night with David Byrne at Bill Graham Civic Auditorium—choreographed chaos, sharp orange suits, and a full room utterly captivated. Check out Gabriel Barkin’s full gallery to relive the art, movement, and pure joy from the show.
Highlights from
THE BEST OF BISS THIS WEEK
We’ve got so many amazing shows on our Best of BISS every week that we’re running out of room, so this week we’re just sharing the highlights!
11/20 Samantha Fish + Robert Jon & The Wreck @ Felton Music Hall ![]()
11/20 The Brian Jonestown Massacre w/ Federale @ The Regency Ballroom
11/20 The Nth Power @ Moe’s Alley
11/20 Tinsley Ellis @ Yoshi’s Oakland
11/20 LowDown Brass Band (7 & 9:15pm) @ Black Cat ![]()
11/21 Gogo Penguin @ The Fillmore ![]()
11/21 Melvin Seals & JGB @ Uptown Theatre Napa
11/21 Nicki Bluhm w/ Victoria George @ Felton Music Hall
11/21 The Brian Jonestown Massacre @ Rio Theatre
11/21 BERTHA: Grateful Drag @ Great American Music Hall
11/21 Robert Plant’s Saving Grace ft Suzi Dian, Rosie Flores @ Fox Theater Oakland
11/21 T Sisters, Good Friends @ HopMonk Tavern Sebastopol ![]()
11/21 LowDown Brass Band (7 & 9:30pm) @ Black Cat ![]()
11/21 Thomas Dolby @ Bimbo’s 365 Club
11/21 Jon Chi w/ Greg Loiacono & Stingray @ Sweetwater Music Hall
11/21 The Nth Power @ Boom Boom Room ![]()
11/21 Rudy Colombini @ Music City SF
11/21 Too $hort w/ Live Band (8 & 10pm) @ Yoshi’s Oakland
11/22 Big Bad Voodoo Daddy’s Wild & Swingin’ Holiday Party @ The Guild Theatre
11/22 BERTHA: Grateful Drag @ Great American Music Hall
11/22 LowDown Brass Band (7 & 9:30pm) @ Black Cat ![]()
11/22 The Great Dickens Christmas Fair & Victorian Holiday Party! @ Cow Palace ![]()
11/22 Purple Pachyderm:16th Annual Pre-Turkey Day Bonanza ft The King Street Giants @ HopMonk Tavern Sebastopol
11/22 Nicki Bluhm w/ Victoria George @ Sweetwater Music Hall
11/22 Khruangbin @ The Regency Ballroom
11/22 Too $hort w/ Live Band (7:30 & 930pm) @ Yoshi’s Oakland
11/22 Big Bad Voodoo Daddy’s Wild & Swingin’ Holiday Party @ The Guild Theatre ![]()
11/23 The Great Dickens Christmas Fair & Victorian Holiday Party! @ Cow Palace ![]()
11/23 Khruangbin @ The Regency Ballroom
11/23 Too $hort w/ Live Band @ Yoshi’s Oakland
11/23 Cody Steinmann (7 & 9:15pm) @ Black Cat ![]()
11/25 The Mars Volta, Kiani Medina, Feliz Y Dada @ Fox Theater Oakland
11/26 The California Honeydrops @ Uptown Theatre Napa
11/26 Vinyl’s Annual Black Wednesday Bash @ Sweetwater Music Hall
11/26 Anna’s 2nd Annual Grateful Waltz @ Ashkenaz ![]()
11/26 Of Monsters and Men, Arny Margret @ Fox Theater Oakland
11/26 Thanksgiving Gratitude Jam #18 ft Tony Glaser + Pamela Parker, Kevin Coleman, Taccarra Burrell, Simon Rochester, and more @ Sideboard Danville
11/26 Danny’s Live Dead @ Peri’s
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